I saw as a life coach.
Step number three here is going to be very transparent and easy for you to identify.
You see we've already established in step one that the only way you're ever going to be able to make
tangible progress with someone in the context of her life coaching relationship is once they've made
the decision to change once they've taken responsibility for the situations or the circumstances of
the find themselves and once they are to treatment and no longer be the victim but become the victor
to become that overcomer of challenges and problems because this is what I'm talking about when we're
clear on what to talk about the proactive mindset the proactive mindset is one of which were not just
going to wait for the world to change.
We're going to change and take control of the process through taking action.
Now when it comes to life and people are going to come to you with problems people may already come
to you with problems in fact.
So if they've made a decision a change you going to recognize this through the action that the tick
will know and then find the difference between talker's and do so it's important that you are able to
to recognize and discern the difference for yourself.
But how do we know how it is that we're going to know whether someone is really worth investing into
fully or not is through the level of commitment that they make.
So for example there will be some people who started this course who got towards the second section
and they just felt that there wasn't enough really boring rigid information in this course.
There wasn't enough of these out because all they were actually really interested in was theory information
because the TOCA doctors not doing as you see do ours cannot operate on information alone.
Doers can really operate with insight and understanding which comes from interacting and through interacting
with people who've gone there before.
Hence the reason I'm sharing the section of the course last.
This is the final section though you see because you've committed to Macon to this section of the Course
I'm sharing with you as openly and as real as possible.
The life caudron framework is there's nothing any more.
More insightful or rather deeper than this.
We've looked at beliefs we've looked at the inside out revolution how our thoughts our emotions all
these sorts of things works.
Those are all the books that can potentially get in a way.
So we've got to understand that stuff because if we don't understand our stuff then we're never going
to be able to understand.
The blogs are preventing people from taking these seven steps.
Right.
So everything completely interlinks I'm talking from experience here from insight and understanding
because you've committed to the course you are.
I would suggest are going to have a highly more probable chance of becoming a successful established
as a life coach than those turned off after Section 2.
But this is what you're going to be looking for in your clients as well.
Look in the past I have committed.
Time in diary's to people and this is just a practical step here.
By the way in the early stages of your life coach and practice it might be the case the operate out
of a diary through which I mean that people will phone you are poor or send you an email.
They want to book sessions with you know yeah you've got to get yourself set up on directories and get
a Web site established and all that kind of stuff.
And there's quarters out there and they can they can explain to you how to do all that sort of thing
as well.
That's not really what this course is about as you're most likely aware by know.
But when someone comes to you for coaching if they took your time and they may come one week to then
they'll miss a week then come week for their no Messer week and then I'll have a couple of weeks holiday
and then I'll say or but I'm really busy.
I just cannot come this week.
If someone's making excuses it's going to be for one of two reasons.
Reason number one is because they will never know are fully committed in the first place because I hadn't
actually made a decision to change.
It was just a nice idea or number two is that you were just giving them information and not any actionable
insight.
So say they're going to be your new or is going to be on them.
Commitment is commitment is a sign of maturity persistence perseverance if you're not seeing that in
someone then realistically you can't trust them.
And it's important that you understand this because if you continue to spend time with someone who's
not fully committed.
Well guess what their response is going to be when you aren't the one who's able to fix their life magically
follow them they're going to come against you they're going to slander you when it comes to them speaking
to other people about their life coaching experience.
Guess who they're going to recommend not to go to you.
It's important that we are completely aware of the stuff that we're able to recognize when people are
fully committed to the process the process of self discovery self betterment and those who aren't.
Because if people are just waiting for you to fix them then they've not taken responsibility for their
own life.
It's crucial that we understand this.
So if you're able to see that someone has committed to the process of life coaching then you can give
them exercises the life balance questionnaire you could print off and give me a copy of the life planning
warrant but given what you want between sessions and see the start of each session they come to you
having completed it and they're going to come to you with questions which makes your role as a life
coach very very easy.
I promise you it does.
When people are self governing and they are actively looking for ways in which they can move forward
in life they are looking for is a little bit of input and a little bit of guidance.
Euro is just to discern where it is.
They are.
So you can ask appropriate questions when necessary and when approached.
We're just going to offer them a secondary alternative perspective on the issue or the block or the
challenge or the hard or they perceive this as holding them back.
So when someone is committed to their life in process I personally as a life coach will fully commit
to them because this is the reason why I do what I do.
And it's probably a partial reason why you want to go down this road too.
You can only ever commit to people to the degree of which they're willing to commit to you.
This is the principle of the harvest.
What you sow you reap what they saw they reap and you kind of want more for other people than what they
already want for themselves.
So this stuff is gaudi's come through years of experience years of getting it wrong and making drastic
mistakes I've made all these mistakes I'm sharing them with you right here so that you don't have to
go on into the future.
So there is another word to quote attach to this video.
You can download read through just me being honest.
And again we'll look forward to seeing you again in the next clip.